It's often said that it’s hard to find true love, so how can one determine if someone is their true love? There are two feelings: being together is effortless, and being apart brings no regrets. Effortless means your souls feel light when together, and no regrets means your heart is unburdened when parting. True love is not the red thread of the matchmaker, but the karmic tree you pluck with your own hands. When the branches and leaves spread out, the answer becomes clear. True fate is as natural as breathing; you don’t need to stand on tiptoe to please, nor do you have to bend down to compromise. Just stand side by side, and the wind will pass through you.