There is a well-known saying in the contract market: Rules kill emotions; being slow is actually fast.
That early morning at 3 a.m. left the deepest impression on me. The market on the screen was wildly fluctuating, and my position was suddenly forcibly liquidated. This was already the fifth time that month. I can still feel that heart-stopping sensation when I think back.
Initially, I also thought that high leverage was the fast lane to turnaround. Later, I realized a truth: perpetual contracts themselves are not a trap, but the misperception of them is.
**Why Do You Always Lose Money**
In the early days of entering the scene, I stepped into all the pits. Seeing a surge, I would FOMO chase the high; when it dropped, I’d panic and cut losses; blindly following the calls of certain "big V" influencers, only to end up being harvested; the most outrageous was obsessing over high multiples—50x, 100x leverage—constantly going all-in, thinking that was the synonym for high returns.
But the market has a kind of magic that cures all luck-based mentalities. Contract trading is a zero-sum game—you make money because someone else loses. In this ecosystem, emotional traders are the easiest targets to be liquidated. The only common trait among those who survive is discipline.
**The Truth About Perpetual Contracts**
Perpetual contracts are financial derivatives, with the core mechanism allowing you to profit without holding the underlying asset, by predicting price movements. The design of two-way trading indeed opens up new possibilities—profit from both rising and falling markets, and with leverage, even small accounts can participate in big trends.
The problem is, leverage amplifies not only gains but also risks. Many treat it as a gambling tool, which often leads to disaster.
**What Is the Survival Rule**
After experiencing multiple liquidations, I summarized a set of principles. The core of these isn’t complicated technical indicators, but two words: rules.
First, set a stop-loss bottom line. No matter how optimistic you are about a trend, always pre-set your stop-loss point. Emotions can deceive, but numbers won’t.
Second, the lower the leverage, the better. 50x or 100x leverage may seem like a quick way to get rich, but in reality, it’s just gambling on probabilities. If you must use leverage, 3x to 5x is a relatively safe range.
Third, don’t chase highs or bottom-fish. These two actions seem to present great opportunities, but in fact, they are emotional traps leading to death. Wait for clearer signals; better to miss an opportunity than get caught.
Fourth, position management is a matter of life and death. Even if you are right about the direction, going all-in at once can wipe you out on a pullback. Divide your funds into several parts and deploy gradually—that’s the long-term survival strategy.
Fifth, record every trade. Not to show off, but to discover which trading habits are profitable and which are losing money. Data speaks.
**From Emotions to Rules**
When you stop relying on feelings and strictly follow rules for entry and exit, amazing things happen. The frequency of liquidations decreases, and individual losses become manageable. Most importantly, you begin to truly understand the meaning of risk.
The crypto market is never short of stories. What’s missing are those who can resist temptation and stick to their rules.
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ShibaOnTheRun
· 01-08 19:56
The part about liquidation at 3 a.m. really hit me; it’s truly a nightmare for mental resilience.
Stop-loss is easy to talk about, but 99% of people are emotionally driven when it comes to execution.
Just want to ask... do you still have the impulse to chase highs now?
3 to 5x leverage sounds conservative, but the ones really making money are probably playing like this.
The worst thing is the ALL IN type—one dip and the game is over.
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SandwichVictim
· 01-08 10:48
The liquidation scene at 3 a.m. was truly incredible; I've been through it too, and I felt like I lost myself entirely.
To be honest, high leverage is just a gimmick, a tool to cut people.
Rules are easy to talk about but extremely difficult to implement; as soon as emotions take over, everything is forgotten.
The suggestion of 3 to 5 times leverage isn't bad; at least it allows you to survive longer.
Perpetual contracts are just gambling machines, I've realized.
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BrokenYield
· 01-05 22:53
tbh the 3am liquidation era hits different when you're watching your leverage ratio collapse in real time... seen too many "100x or bust" types become cautionary tales ngl
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zkNoob
· 01-05 22:53
The moment of liquidation at 3 a.m. really hit home... I've been through it countless times, and now all I can do is sigh when I think about it. The key is to learn how to contend with your own greed.
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3x or 5x leverage may not sound that exciting, but staying alive is the real victory.
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Honestly, I now skip over big V's signals immediately; too many people have been burned to realize this truth.
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Recording trades is extremely important. I use spreadsheets for this, and only by looking at the data do I realize I have a habit of chasing highs.
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The phrase "slow is fast" is especially understandable now; everyone who has lost money knows this.
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Stop-loss is very much a test of mental resilience... getting used to cutting losses is actually a good thing.
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That period of five liquidations... familiar pain. Do you still dare to play with contracts now, friend?
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Position splitting is the true lifesaver; those who go all-in will eventually be eliminated—that's the rule.
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DeadTrades_Walking
· 01-05 22:51
The feeling at 3 a.m.... I understand, those who have been liquidated more than five times probably do too.
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High leverage is really just an accelerator to quickly return to zero, nothing else.
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Setting stop-losses sounds simple, but it's hard to do. When emotions run high, you forget everything.
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The suggestion of 3x to 5x leverage is still somewhat considerate, but most people can't hear it.
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I've also been recording my trades and just realized that the routines for losing money are all the same.
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Rules > feelings, there's nothing wrong with that, but you need to be liquidated a few times to truly understand.
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Five liquidations in a month... brother, you've been through some tough times.
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Chasing highs and bottom-fishing is really an emotional trap; I've fallen into it too.
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Many people haven't yet realized that futures trading is a zero-sum game.
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Perpetual contracts are indeed not a trap; greed is.
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degenonymous
· 01-05 22:46
The feeling of getting liquidated at 3 a.m. is truly intense; I've been through it myself.
Exactly right, trading with low leverage can last forever, while high leverage is just a gambler's playground.
Rules are easy to say but hard to follow; many people lose because of their emotions.
Getting liquidated five times... this guy really crawled out of hell.
Stop-loss is really a lifesaver; those who don't set it are dead.
I think the key is position management; going all-in is just courting death.
The days of following big V influencers are long gone; every time, I get cut deeply.
Contracts are emotional killers; whoever is greedy, GG.
I'm only now starting to record my trades; why didn't I listen earlier?
The phrase "slow is fast" I need to stick on my computer and look at every day.
There is a well-known saying in the contract market: Rules kill emotions; being slow is actually fast.
That early morning at 3 a.m. left the deepest impression on me. The market on the screen was wildly fluctuating, and my position was suddenly forcibly liquidated. This was already the fifth time that month. I can still feel that heart-stopping sensation when I think back.
Initially, I also thought that high leverage was the fast lane to turnaround. Later, I realized a truth: perpetual contracts themselves are not a trap, but the misperception of them is.
**Why Do You Always Lose Money**
In the early days of entering the scene, I stepped into all the pits. Seeing a surge, I would FOMO chase the high; when it dropped, I’d panic and cut losses; blindly following the calls of certain "big V" influencers, only to end up being harvested; the most outrageous was obsessing over high multiples—50x, 100x leverage—constantly going all-in, thinking that was the synonym for high returns.
But the market has a kind of magic that cures all luck-based mentalities. Contract trading is a zero-sum game—you make money because someone else loses. In this ecosystem, emotional traders are the easiest targets to be liquidated. The only common trait among those who survive is discipline.
**The Truth About Perpetual Contracts**
Perpetual contracts are financial derivatives, with the core mechanism allowing you to profit without holding the underlying asset, by predicting price movements. The design of two-way trading indeed opens up new possibilities—profit from both rising and falling markets, and with leverage, even small accounts can participate in big trends.
The problem is, leverage amplifies not only gains but also risks. Many treat it as a gambling tool, which often leads to disaster.
**What Is the Survival Rule**
After experiencing multiple liquidations, I summarized a set of principles. The core of these isn’t complicated technical indicators, but two words: rules.
First, set a stop-loss bottom line. No matter how optimistic you are about a trend, always pre-set your stop-loss point. Emotions can deceive, but numbers won’t.
Second, the lower the leverage, the better. 50x or 100x leverage may seem like a quick way to get rich, but in reality, it’s just gambling on probabilities. If you must use leverage, 3x to 5x is a relatively safe range.
Third, don’t chase highs or bottom-fish. These two actions seem to present great opportunities, but in fact, they are emotional traps leading to death. Wait for clearer signals; better to miss an opportunity than get caught.
Fourth, position management is a matter of life and death. Even if you are right about the direction, going all-in at once can wipe you out on a pullback. Divide your funds into several parts and deploy gradually—that’s the long-term survival strategy.
Fifth, record every trade. Not to show off, but to discover which trading habits are profitable and which are losing money. Data speaks.
**From Emotions to Rules**
When you stop relying on feelings and strictly follow rules for entry and exit, amazing things happen. The frequency of liquidations decreases, and individual losses become manageable. Most importantly, you begin to truly understand the meaning of risk.
The crypto market is never short of stories. What’s missing are those who can resist temptation and stick to their rules.