The cruelest truth in social circles is:

You are ignored, overlooked, marginalized, never because you don't know how to speak.

The essence of any lasting relationship is a precise balance of power.

Without value, your humor is humble, your sincerity is cheap.

In the adult world, there is no "love without reason."

The so-called "compatibility" is essentially the brain's instant comprehensive assessment of you: assets, status, cognition, utility.

If you cannot provide emotional value, informational value, or benefit value, this connection is inherently one-sided consumption from the start.

And consumption is destined to be unsustainable.

You desperately try to break into a circle, and this behavior itself proves:

The essence of upward socializing is not "making friends" with the strong, but "exchanging" resources.

If you don't have the chips the other party needs,

The "network" you think you have is just "harassment" in their eyes.

In the contacts of the powerful, there are only two types of people: useful, and temporarily useless.

Many boast about their "sincerity," believing it's a social killer move.

The truth is: sincerity without strength is a worthless burden.

• When you're at the bottom, sincerity has a "begging" tone.

• When you're in a high position, indifference is interpreted as "depth."

This world only cares about what you hold in your hands, not what you think in your heart.

Drop those dinner invitations that make you feel constrained.

There, you're not the guest of honor; you're just a background figure filling in.

Or a reference object used to highlight the status of the host and guest.

Real resource exchange isn't in the noise at the dinner table.

It's in equal negotiations in the study.

Rather than spending time "hanging out" in circles, become that "circle."

A clear-headed hunter doesn't socialize frequently.

The energy spent maintaining a low-quality relationship

is enough for you to make a cognitive leap.

When you give up seeking security through socializing, you take control.

Stay indifferent, stay distant, stay mysterious.

When you become stronger, the whole world will proactively seek you out for "balance."

Stop the humble flattery, delete those who have never replied to you.

The best social strategy is only four words: self-iteration.

Spend all your time, money, and energy on yourself.

Hone your sickle, accumulate your chips.

When you stand on the mountaintop, circles will cross mountains and seas to find you.

#社交真相 # Cognitive awakening