Has a "correct way to open" It's either value exchange Or a community of shared interests Relationships maintained purely by emotion Except for parents and children Are almost impossible to find anymore Even between men and women, and among relatives It's common to fall out quickly over a little bit of interest
You can never wake up someone who is pretending to be asleep It's not that they don't understand your kindness It's that there's no need for them to understand When there's no longer any benefit or value The relationship will naturally fade away, eventually breaking apart. This has nothing to do with the size of your circle It's related to status and position At its core, it's all about damn human relationships
This is the world of adults All gentleness and enthusiasm Come at a cost All sincerity and companionship Are conditional Don’t complain about indifference And don’t fantasize about eternity See the true nature of relationships And you won’t be disappointed in anyone Understand the flow of interests And you’ll realize there’s no such thing as deep bonds
A sense of security for adults Begins with no longer misjudging relationships
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The way adults interact with each other
Has a "correct way to open"
It's either value exchange
Or a community of shared interests
Relationships maintained purely by emotion
Except for parents and children
Are almost impossible to find anymore
Even between men and women, and among relatives
It's common to fall out quickly over a little bit of interest
You can never wake up someone who is pretending to be asleep
It's not that they don't understand your kindness
It's that there's no need for them to understand
When there's no longer any benefit or value
The relationship will naturally fade away, eventually breaking apart.
This has nothing to do with the size of your circle
It's related to status and position
At its core, it's all about damn human relationships
This is the world of adults
All gentleness and enthusiasm
Come at a cost
All sincerity and companionship
Are conditional
Don’t complain about indifference
And don’t fantasize about eternity
See the true nature of relationships
And you won’t be disappointed in anyone
Understand the flow of interests
And you’ll realize there’s no such thing as deep bonds
A sense of security for adults
Begins with no longer misjudging relationships