That candlestick pierced through the entire night. Seven years ago, in the rented place, the flickering screen illuminated a restless face. ETH rapidly surged from 1800 to 2400, and I poured all my remaining 3000U into it. The moment I pressed the trade button, my heartbeat completely synchronized with the fluctuations of the minute chart.



Seven days of floating profit of 6000U felt like walking a tightrope on the edge of heaven. I had turned off the alert sounds completely, and the plan to clear all positions once reaching 3000U kept replaying in my mind, to the point I couldn't even smell the aroma of food. I was glued to the screen.

Then the news of the Federal Reserve raising interest rates hit — in half a day, ETH returned to 1900. Watching the unrealized gains evaporate, I still lingered in the illusion of "mainstream coins must rebound." In the end, my account was left with only 3000U again.

Sitting on the icy ground, gnawing on a cold naan, my throat was dry. Only then did I realize one thing: no matter how mainstream the coin, it cannot compete with the greed in people's hearts.

Since then, I paid a hefty tuition — bought an NFT for 15,000U that soared to 32,000U but I didn't sell, finally cutting losses and fleeing; during BTC swing trading, I carelessly canceled my stop-loss, holding on until my assets were halved. After being beaten badly, I summarized three truly lifesaving rules.

**Rule 1: Position sizing, like leaving a way out for tomorrow**

35% base — store BTC in a cold wallet, this is the ballast that can pass through bull and bear markets, don’t touch it. 45% main holdings — only invest in top coins like ETH, SOL, and ignore other altcoins. The remaining 20% is emergency reserve — never fully allocate, leave room to breathe. Even in crazy markets, don’t pile all chips into one big gamble.

**Rule 2: Take profits, the numbers on the screen are just illusions**

Last year, when ETH surged from 1900 to 2500, my floating profit hit 120,000U. I immediately withdrew 42,000U into a fixed deposit. Later, ETH corrected to 2100, and looking at that already secured profit, I truly understood: the numbers bouncing on the screen belong to the market, but the money in the bank account is mine. Even exaggerated floating gains are just a game of numbers.

**Rule 3: Stop-loss, drawing a clear line with the out-of-control self**

Once a single loss exceeds 2%, just turn around and walk away, no discussion. If monthly drawdown exceeds 5%, stop trading and cool down. I used to believe in the myth that "mainstream coins don’t fall deep," until one time I held on through a losing position and lost 3000U, finally waking up. Now, stop-loss is like breathing — admit small mistakes, so you won’t fall into irreversible despair.

This market isn’t short of miracles; what’s missing is that true clarity after crawling out of the deep pit: no greed, no holding on stubbornly, no impatience. Just these three points.
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BearMarketBrovip
· 10h ago
I've heard too many stories like this, every time it's "this time is different," and then... nothing happens. Full position is basically gambling with your life. I've seen too many people's accounts drop from six figures to five figures overnight. That rule of stopping loss at 2% sounds good, but how many people can actually stick to it at critical moments? I haven't been able to myself. The numbers on the screen are indeed an illusion; the bank card is the real thing. This phrase should be engraved in your mind. The most painful was the NFT wave, selling at 32,000 and getting burned... but being educated this way is also good; at least I’m still alive and able to keep playing.
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BlockchainBouncervip
· 10h ago
Really, greed is more deadly than the decline itself So heartbreaking, that story of not making a move on the NFT is exactly how I felt last year Spending 3000U all at once, tsk tsk, that kind of mentality must be so shattered Stop-loss is like breathing, I have to keep repeating this in my mind The numbers on the screen are just the market’s bank card, but the real ones are your own, this summary is excellent That feeling of walking a tightrope at the edge of the seven-day heaven, only those who have experienced it truly understand that kind of torment Not holding, not greed, not impulsive—knowing is easy, doing is hard, brother Reading this article is like reading my own blood and tears story, that part where I was gnawing on flatbread on the icy ground really broke me
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GateUser-9ad11037vip
· 10h ago
Honestly, reading this article feels a bit too relatable. I've also experienced the feeling of staring at the screen until dawn, and it really takes a toll on you. The most important thing is that phrase — the numbers on the screen are illusions; only what’s in the wallet counts. This isn't motivational talk; it's a blood, sweat, and tears account.
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DuskSurfervip
· 10h ago
Looking at this article, I can't help but think back to those days when I was glued to the screen, seeing a floating profit of tens of thousands and thinking about taking profits at 3000. But what happened? A single news event hit and I felt the entire account go to zero. Truly, greed is more deadly than any technical analysis. Stop-loss is easy to talk about, but very few can actually execute it. Now I would rather earn less than lose more, and I must stick to that 2% bottom line, or I might find myself back to the days of gnawing on cold flatbread. I agree with the logic of position splitting, but the problem is most people can't stick to the 35% cold wallet setting. As soon as the market rises, they want to go all-in, and that is fatal. The phrase "lock in profits" hits hardest. I realized this only after turning 120,000 USDT floating profit into just 42,000. Indeed, everything on the screen is fake. Many people watch their digital numbers evaporate in that hope of "it will rise again."
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LucidSleepwalkervip
· 10h ago
Really, after reading this, what resonated with me the most was that line "The numbers on the screen belong to the market, but the money in the bank account is your own"... It hits too close to home. How many people die trapped in the illusion of unrealized gains on paper? I was the same before. When I had a 3x profit, I was still dreaming of 3000%, but the last bearish candle wiped it all out... Now I really stick to strict stop-losses, laziness is the biggest enemy in trading. There’s nothing to say about position sizing; maintaining 35% BTC as a base has saved me several times. Not being greedy means not dying. This article condenses too many blood, sweat, and tears lessons, a hundred times more real than those "secret to wealth" tips. By the way, not many people are really strictly following a 2% stop-loss now. Most are still gambling on "it will rebound"... What a joke if it rebounds.
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GateUser-1a2ed0b9vip
· 10h ago
Really, greed is more deadly than any technical analysis, it hits right in the heart. I understand the feeling of going all-in with a full position, it's like betting your life. Stop-loss, honestly, is the hardest to implement at first, but now it's the most comfortable. The numbers on the screen are indeed illusions; the bank card is the reality. That sentence is perfect. Only through being knocked down repeatedly do you realize that even mainstream coins can't stop human greed. Splitting positions is a brilliant move, giving yourself more ways to survive, smart. I once held a position until it was cut in half, and that feeling is something I never want to experience again. Not greedy, not holding, not impatient—easy to say, but it takes countless blood sacrifices to truly understand. This article has gone through all my pitfalls from last year, and it feels a bit uncomfortable.
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