Daily dedicated time for answering private message questions: About inner peace

It’s clear that you are about to complete a main life chapter,
and the external pressures have mostly been lifted.
But the internal support has not yet been established,
and your state is unstable.
Actually,
you don’t really want to chat with someone,
you just want to be understood,
and communicate with strangers without psychological burdens.
You also hope to reaffirm your self-worth through strangers.
Currently, the future path is unclear,
and there are no emotional commitments,
you are searching for answers.
The girl you know,
is not really the point,
you just want to find someone who is on the same wavelength.
When you chat with girls “checking household registration,”
it’s actually about quickly screening people who meet your criteria,
and not wanting to waste time.
But the other person can see that you don’t respect her,
she feels scrutinized and filtered,
so she will withdraw.
You are now in the process of switching identities,
in a relatively empty state.
Life needs to allow for periodic boredom.
You can also give yourself some pressure (tasks).
Learn to be driven by external goals,
and shift towards mastering your own life.